Having friends surround us would be the most wonderful moments. Perhaps we will try our best to maintain the friendship. When history repeated, what should we do? It's about a friend of mine.. who caught in the dilemma between best friend and best buddy..
Few years ago, she got best friend.. She willing to share anything with her.. and they were too close till others curious on their friendship status.. She tried hard to keep the friendship long lasting.. Until they were tear apart by time and situation.. One being sent to Malacca and she was left to further study area Klang Valley.
They still close until one of them admitted that she was now in a relationship with one guy that her best friend knew. This Q (the girl whom already had a couple)was so excited bout the new relationship built. However her friend L, didn't like it as much as she did. There were few bad history that made L felt that way. They still kept in touch.. and the close friendship changed to normal friendship. Q decided to spend more time with the guys and other friend that she felt more happening and understanding than L.
Years by years, Q started to tighten the relationship by marrying with the same guy. The sad part is, L was the last to be invited to the wedding(verbally). Now, L came through almost the same situation. Her close friend tend to make a relationship with guy that she didn't like. L was really caught into dilemma.. If she deny the relationship, she might not get invited to the wedding (1 consequences). If she bless it with close heart, she might badly injured inside.
Until know L keep on emailing me, messaging me seeking for advice. Nothing much I can do. Be patient and hoping for the BEST. Good luck to L.. To me, she should not close to anyone after she was dumb and left for 2 times. Learn from history. Please!
Conclusion that can be made:
Although friendship is everything.. L should not too obsess with her friend. One day, they will left a black spot which u, yourself could not believe its done by ur best friend. Its true... Friendship can be deny by a single person called Man/Woman.
Think wise.. Search for many friends, do not pick one as best friend.. I also learn from mistake and learn much from this story..
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